[sex tipz]SEX ORIENTATION

-Your Sex Life and You Woody Allen says "Having sex is like playing bridge, if you don't have a good partner, you better have a good hand". Let's talk about 'How To Control Your Ejaculation' As you know, premature Ejaculation is the most common sexual problem among men. We know that too. Two out of three men ejaculate quickly during sex, much quickly for their liking and much too quickly for their partner's liking. The really exciting news is that no matter how quickly you ejaculate at the moment, you can easily stop this from happening. The fact that you come too quickly simply means you haven't put in place your fundamental sexual abilities as a man. These abilities include 'to ejaculate when you wish, to fully satisfy your partner etc and for the record, with the help of some simple steps which will be shown for the purpose of this topic, you will be able to control when you ejaculate. But guess what? Research has revealed that most women want around ten to fifteen minutes of intimate connection to feel truly sexually fulfilled. This means most men cannot satisfy a woman's need for sexual connection. Women, sad to say, are not very happy about this even if they are too kind to say so! These are some of the reasons why she won't marry you. Its sound stupid when a woman says " I can't marry him because he's not good in bed." But in real sense, its the obvious truth. Women need men who won't make them wonder if another man can take her to cloud 9 except you. It feels powerful and masculine to be able to ejaculate on demand, and having this level of control will certainly make a woman look at you with more respect. Men are made to enjoy sex with complete control and choice about the timing of orgasm and ejaculation. So, stop taking alomo, stop watching porn, stop taking manpower and the likes of it. Your woman deserves some respect from you. The first step is the Element of choice: you control your body. If you want to stay hours before ejaculation, you have to train your mind. Remember that everything lies in the mind set. The second is to follow these step prescribed by someone I look up to: The twin brother to pornography is masturbation and I am going to dedicate a series to dealing with masturbation because I have so many clients at the moment battling with premature ejaculation and inability to sustain erection. As a matter of fact many of the books you would get to read will tell you that there is nothing wrong with masturbation even though they all agree over-masturbation is not healthy. But they fail to answer the relationship between masturbation and over-masturbation. Masturbation is defined as the self stimulation of the genital till a state of orgasm is achieved. It helps in ejaculation but remember that too much of everything is a disease. It is also called self sex which means having sex with oneself but what many people who thought they had it under control may not  say is that it has become an addiction that they find so hard to stop. While some of them may want to argue about it they can't deny their inability to stop and also are unable to explain why they can't stop. One thing masturbation is guaranteed to do for you is to train your body to ejaculate and reconfigure your system to produce semen faster than necessary. A lot will tell you that many of the effects are psychological but the commonest effects range from fatigue, feeling tired most of the time, Stress and anxiety, Soft/ weak erection, Premature ejaculation, Semen leakage ,Shrinkage of penis at the base, Reduced amount of orgasm, Mood swings, Depression/irritability, Poor memory, Lose of sex drive towards the opposite sex to Lack of sexual satisfaction. Truth is there are other perversion that men use as coping mechanism which is not healthy for marriage and that is why we are having more woman come in for counseling whose sex lives are inactive because their men have failed in their bedroom duties. Never assume that your wife can't be tempted and that is why you need to quit these perversion. Train your mind and keep visiting for more from the Sex Orientation Series on this Blog. More to come. Have a sex stressed free life.