When her call connected, she moved away to get some privacy. She didn't acknowledge he was going to be rooted to the spot waiting for her. He didn't know whether or not to follow her. Even he, knew it was over before it started. I could read his mind, "damned if you do go back. Damned if you don't." Women want to be swept off their feet. But they don't want to get a warning before you do it. That just sucks the fun out of the process unless they already like you. A chess master don't let his opponent know his moves. #Tenth rule of a player: Don't let her know you are a player. #Eleventh rule of a player: Plan before executing When amber got off the phone, she went in the opposite direction, just what I expected. For me, the chase had begun. In five minutes, I had a wing woman. #Twelfth rule of a player: Always have a wing woman Michael Babs advices: A wing woman is a woman whom you send forth to the actual one you want to get acquainted with. Women get along faster with women. So, the wing woman clears the path for you, looks around, invites you over, and introduces you as her cousin or a really close friend. Then, later on, she excuses herself to use the bathroom and never returns. #NB: Ladies Beware Michael Babs continues... I implore wing women for people like Marah who are constantly on guard and seemingly unfriendly. So, with a little prepping, my wing woman, Rose, went to meet Marah and they started talking. I figured they were getting along well because Marah was smiling. And then, rose beckoned at me from across the hall. When I accosted them. She said, "this is my cousin Michael Babs. He shouldn't be here, He doesn't need this course." I smiled at my wing woman and offered Marah my hand for a shake. "Next thing, she's gonna tell you I wrote Obama's speech" I said and she smiled. "Sounds like you could" she said while laughing. Now, that's my point. By all means, get a woman laughing. Practice if you have to. And if she's laughing, she's listening to you. And if she's listening, then you can pretty much drive your case home. : #thirteenth rule of a player: Get her laughing. Crack jokes, because if you can get a woman to laugh, you can get her to do just about anything you want her to do. So, as I shook her hand, I quickly added, "did they send you out here so the remaining staff can work for one day without distraction?" She caught the joke and guffawed. Rose knew that was the cue. I'm going to freshen up a little, please excuse me." Marah nodded her approval as Rose found her way out and delved into the rest room. And I took my place in front of her. Now stay with me let me begin and let me finish. More to come.... Keep your fingers crossed.
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